The only downside is you do need to research knots and ways to tie but this really isn’t hard to learn.īlindfold: Use fabric, use a pillowcase, or a t-shirt, or if you have a blindfold use that. Rope: Rope is solid, you can use it for so many different types of restraining and it’s cheap and easy to buy. I usually use handcuffs or rope, we have used scarves and a modified belt before too. Handcuffs: You can use heavy-duty handcuffs, rope, or any loose material that can bind the hands together. Once their feet and hands are restrained, you can do whatever you please without any of their limbs getting in the way.
I decided to keep track of everything I used the last few times I gently dominated my man and this is a quick breakdown, it’s also all the stuff I mention further on in this post:īed Restraints: Most of you hopefully already have some bed restraints ( these bed restraints are amazing), they are amazing for all kinds of sex, especially domination.
I’m going to show you some of the things I’ve fallen in love with during my time experimenting with femdom with my boyfriend so that you too can have a sweet and exciting time as a gentle dom. I find it a really healthy kink and it’s a great reward after some harder femdom moments for those of us who still enjoy the dominatrix and hard dom side to the femdom world so if that sounds like a nice idea to you here are the best ways to enjoy soft femdom with my 101 guide that tells you everything you need to know: How To Practice Gentle Femdom I actually find gentle femdom to be a deeply loving and bonding experience, it’s about being soft and gentle guiding your sub, and having fun with your sub, showing them lots of love all while still being in total control of them without any of the punishing or humiliating. Switching on that maternal, loving side to your brain is really nice sometimes and allows you to explore a really interesting side to sex and even your relationship. If you choose to enjoy gentle femdom it’s a great way to build up trust with a partner and feel a great connection, this can happen whether you’re a newbie or practice femdom (I have some amazing femdom bedroom ideas here) all of the time. I’m personally a switch which means that I enjoy being dominant and submissive. For me, it’s not about complete domination all the time. There are also a lot of ways to try this type of female domination without having to dive deep into the kink, so it’s pretty accessible for newbies, which is always a great opener. It still needs an open mind from whoever is involved, but it’s far easier to start and have a conversation about it. I’d say that personally gentle soft femdom is the perfect intro into this kink. I think I’m pretty hooked at this point and so ladies and gentlemen this is everything that you need to know about GFD. We’ve had pegging threesomes and I even wrote a femdom pegging guide. It started with pegging, which was completely separate from our femdom experience, but we actually started to enjoy the domination aspects of it, so much so I’ve written about it a few times on my blog. My boyfriend and I have had a lot of fun with the gentle femdom kink. They may be teased and denied their orgasm but this is done affectionately and a sub will always give their best effort which is more than likely always rewarded. Gentle femdom is like normal femdom (female domination) except it’s sweeter and kinder and where the sub will perform acts of service, body worship, sexual submissiveness, maybe the sub will be collared but rarely will the sub be punished as would usually happen, instead a sub is usually praised for their efforts through affection and physical and verbal praise. Gentle FemDom is also sometimes abbreviated to GFD which some of you may prefer to call it. It’s a community with millions of very happy people who all love the dominant yet light and pleasant side of this type of relationship. The wonderful, erotic, kind, and tender world of gentle femdom.